The little Thing

Once upon a time, as it is always said, I had this issue with my friend and we could not continue again as friends. Looking back at what use to be, is something that I do not want to go through again, though it has been quite long but then it was too good to let go; the deed has been done. 

How many times has this happened in my life? It is close to many. I recently got married to a dear friend of mine, what a thing? Sounds so good? It started as if it was just one of those things, that will turn out good or bad, never crossed my mind. That we allowed it to roll, is an idea that is very far from the truth. This is because we never had any plan or idea of how it was going to pan out. It is a typical life experience; though you already know that. Why? Is mostly the question we ask ourselves. Is this right? Do not expect me to give you the answer. Why in the first place do you want to know the answer? Is it to tell me that I am wrong or to take it hook line and sinker?

Back to the main issue. In any relationship that you find yourself, do not think you or be tempted to take yourself as the better part of the story? In my case, I am not talking of any kind of relationship that you are so free to walk away from and easily overcome, I am talking about marriage.

Marriage in my own part of the world is not something you can't just walk away from.... ok! You can walk away from it but very hard to live with your new status. It is now happening here; divorce, but it is still in the infant stage, we are yet to know how wonderful it is to be a divorcee.

I woke up today to realize that while it is at the back of my memory. I will ensure not to mess up my married life and, that it was just the common things that my very good friend valued the most. Though I already know that it is still that, that really throws her off.

Early in the morning she wakes up stretching her slim wonderful body and at the same time reaching out for me; what a thing.which I must admit I do so. This is a common thing which we do with a lively hope and meet not just ourselves but also joy, happiness and love - above all. She prepares my breakfast and expect me to yearn for it, eat it and enjoy it, tell her thank you and kiss her or at lest peck her before we part ways to our different destination early in the day. Later in the day we expect each other back at least and it goes on and on, this everyday and common things are the ones that matters most in our lives, more than 'the once in a while thing' that may or may not wow us. We do not wait for a special day or put this other way, we do not look forward to a particular day for us to feel ourselves, just the little things that we do every time and mostly in our life that makes us happy and wonderful. I believe for every one out there mingling with every other persons in our society it is those consistent little things about us that we exhibit always that matters most. It defines our character, it draws us closer to people or otherwise, and above all it make us love people the more.

These little things lets make it good.